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Posted by / 23-Sep-2018 01:57

Dating unattractive man

I find the vast, vast, vast majority of men unattractive.

Mostly it’s that I don’t have any physical attraction to them, but once in a while (about twice a year if I’m on a lot of dating sites, or once every few years if I’m not), I’ll meet someone I actually think is good looking (a hint here is that I find most celebrities physically unattractive, apparently my sex drive is picky but I couldn’t tell you why – although I DO have a high sex drive…).

Just read what you wrote to me: “(I) avoid intimacy by going out with people I don’t find attractive.” Sorry, but I want to challenge that assertion.

Your issue, in this instance, isn’t lack of confidence; it’s something that runs much deeper, something you only hinted at when you say that your family “messed you up.” Without knowing you, I have to concur.

Very attractive woman – a 43-year-old personal trainer who hated online dating for the very reason you mentioned. When we went through the website to take inventory, I asked her to put 40 guys on her favorites list. The only 6 guys she found attractive looked like 32-year-old GQ models whose preferred age range was 22-29.

My client was pretty much out of luck because she found less than 1% of men attractive, including NO men her own age who wanted her in return.

I saw that as the woman making a mistake or being stupid enough to fall for a guy like that.

I didn’t know that she could actually feel attracted to him for OTHER reasons.

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Some of the many ways that you can attract women are with your confidence, charisma, charm, humor and masculine vibe. Before I discovered what I now teach here at The Modern Man, I was going through life assuming that beautiful women couldn’t like me because I wasn’t good looking enough. When I interacted with beautiful women, NOTHING that I was saying and doing was making them feel any attraction because all I was doing was talking to them in a nice, friendly way and expecting to be LIKED for it.

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