Dating a vietnamese girl
this is first thing i learned on my dating adventure.
the dating period can be as long as you want just know that at the end of the "date" youre expected to come bearing areca nuts and betel leaves.4 - some women will sacrifice love for financial security for their family.
Given our immigrant roots, most Asian girls endure a latent insecurity about everything from our boobs to our patriotism (both things that are just slightly there). But if you're going to lock it down and marry your Oriental princess, you must know one final thing: in Chinese wedding traditions, the groom pays for the wedding.
So, as her white, Jewish (80% of the time), totally-secure-and-normal boyfriend, you better be prepared for when your girlfriend mistakes "soup or salad" for "super salad." And since Asians have eyes like gravy boats, her crying jags are bound to extend late into the night. STEP FOUR: Locking it Down If you've made it this far, then you know all the dirty secrets of dating an Asian girl. You know we pretend to love drinking, even though we turn into full-blown red-faced injuns when we do. (According to my mom, the tradition stems from the groom's family giving the bride's family a cow in exchange for her.) So, if you're going to marry an Asian, get ready to empty your pockets. Of course, because of this, my parents want me to marry a Chinese guy and my brother to marry a white girl.
but they will love you regardless of their original intentions.
being arrogant and confident i thought i had nothing new to learn considering my advanced age. several posts have inspired me to start this thread to help newbies navigate the world of dating Vietnamese women. ofcourse there are exceptions to every rule so dont take these advice/opinions as canon.
"qu qu" - image is everything.7 - getting phone numbers from local women is not a big deal as it is in the western world. 8 - unless she lost her family when you marry a Viet woman you marry her family.
if you dont get along with your in-laws youre screwed.9 - on the first few dates you can sometimes expect friends, family or co-workers to attend.10 - if youre dating/marrying a catholic/christian woman there are a whole new set of rules.11 - if you have a quirky, dark, sarcastic sense of humor refrain from it until you get to know her better.
Notice, I'm not saying this because he's white but because he's cleary a yellow fever creep.
Before you call me crazy, go read some of the comments is REAL.
It's precisely because of your lenient (and often, encouraging) attitudes, that an obvious creep like the op has the confidence to approach with racist impunity. That's the kind of "white rugged hero" that many Asian females naively date. ...........omg"Done dating jap and kor woman x D ---"This creepy white guy can't even be bothered to spell out or capitalize their ethnicities. For the rest of you, this guy clearly has a creepy yellow fever fixation.