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If you mention even one thing they listed in their profile, that should help.I consider all vague messages to be spam and are completely ignored.He reads my profile and then naturally asks me about myself based on what he's read, preferably not in a three word sentence, or a two page letter.The game is 90 percent your pics and profile not the first message. Say hello, mention a couple things you liked about her profile and ask her a question she can reply to.I'm cosigning with most of the posts regarding a reference to her profile.I dislike the "###-###-#### call me," or "hello/how u doin/wanna chat" because it seems they gave up all efforts.And what women say they like and actually respond to .... There is absolutely nothing to be gained by doing this. "Hi, I liked your profile, message me back if you like mine"... When someone sends a novel, you just know it's a cut and paste job...
Save it on your computer/flash drive as a "template." When you message various women, use that and tweak it for each person.
I want to see that you can see humour and not take things so damned literally.
That you can perhaps laugh at yourself, and string more than three sentences together WITH punctuation and correct spelling.
I am not saying ALL or EVERY woman is like this there are some who genuinly will still respond politely even if not interested, but for the most part, physical attraction comes first, it's not something we chose either, so you cannot place the blame.
Call me stupid, or whatever you like, but awhile back on an old name, I used to send the most ridiculous, stupid, irrelevent messeges, just to prove a point, and women would still show interest, yet many will still pose the argument, I dont care what he looks like yada yada yada, if he doesn't write this or that, I wont respond.
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